If you’re drawn to the deeper questions of what it means to live and love fully—especially in the wake of loss, transition, or awakening—you’re warmly invited to join me on Substack.

 

Lifemaking/Lovemaking is an ongoing collection of long-form essays exploring the raw, beautiful terrain of embodiment, trauma, healing, and the thresholds that ask us to become more fully ourselves. It’s a place where I write freely—outside the clinical frame—with intimacy, honesty, and depth.

 

The arc of this publication is both personal and collective. It begins in The Waiting Room, a metaphor for the liminal space many of us find ourselves in when life as we’ve known it no longer fits—but what’s next hasn’t yet arrived. From there, the writing deepens into themes of psychological initiation, the body’s wisdom, the longing for love, and the sacred work of becoming.

 

Each post stands on its own, but read together, they form a living, evolving curriculum. A kind of soul-mapping for those who are learning—perhaps for the first time—how to truly live inside their bodies, their longings, and their lives.

 

This is not psychotherapy, but it is offered in the spirit of care, reflection, and meaningful accompaniment.

 

If any part of you is hovering in the threshold—between lives, identities, or versions of self—I hope you’ll find something here that speaks to you.